December 18 – The Ordinary Days
Sometimes I find myself reading the “On This Day” in Wikipedia, and I enjoy apps like TimeHop and checking out my Facebook memories daily. Not all of our days seem special, but in hindsight, isn’t interesting that all of these “ordinary” days are actually quite special? Maybe it was something funny that one of my daughters said at dinner or a flashback to a sweet date night with my husband before we became a family of six. Maybe it’s an image of a little one’s birthday party or a scene from a family hiking trip.
At the time, while we are living these days, they seem so ordinary, so mundane, but all of these mundane moments and ordinary days become our lives, and our lives are so short and precious that it would be such a shame to race through them, tossing them off as “ordinary,” unimportant days.
As I mentioned in a previous post, it is so important to slow down and live each day like it matters, and not just see them as the “filler” between each holiday event. To race through each week is almost second-nature. It takes intention and determination to grab the reigns and slow the pace of life for ourselves.
I read Wikipedia today, December 18th, and to me, it was just a no-big-deal, ordinary day, but history tells a different story… I looked at the important events that had taken place over the course of generations, and the births of people that would change the face of humanity – for better and for worse. For us, each day may be just another, boring day, but in another place, in another’s life… it has the potential to be the most remarkable day in history.
I often read the book of Ecclesiastes, and it perplexes me. It makes me think. For the longest time, I have tried to understand how and why I was supposed to adopt this “everything is meaningless” kind of mentality. Why would God have me do such a thing, especially when it seems like He would want me to live as though the opposite is true? Every thing, every person, and every day is full of meaning and purpose, right? Otherwise, everything really is pointless. Maybe that’s actually one of the points of the book? Maybe He allows us to see irony and the fruitlessness that would result from living as though nothing matters and we’re just taking up space and time?
And from a different perspective, when compared to the glory of Heaven and the expanse of living eternally with our Creator… everything really is meaningless. Can we live as though both are true? Is this another beautiful contrast of God’s word? We’re to live in the truth that everything pales in comparison to the reality of Heaven, while simultaneously living moment-by-moment for His honor and glory, not squandering the precious time we have here…
I hold dear to David’s prayer in the Psalms:
So teach us to number our days, That we may present to You a heart of wisdom.
– Psalm 90:12
Yes, Lord, teach us to number our days, so that we may live these fleeting days wisely. Thank you for these ordinary days and mundane moments, and thank you for giving your all so that we could abundantly live in each one of them.
Klover House Christmas:
Last night, my husband and I made plans for the rest of this week. We don’t want to miss out on opportunities to fulfill our Christmas wishlist, as far as things we hope to do as a family before Christmas Day. You won’t find events or parties on this list. Instead, you’ll find items, such as:
- Make a gingerbread house
- See the Christmas lights
- Make sugar cookies
- Visit Santa at the mall
- Attend Church services
- Read the Christmas story
- Watch Christmas movies
- Finish wrapping gifts
Maybe we’ll check “Watch National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation” off tomorrow night, and, despite neither of us feeling well, it will feel so good to belly-laugh together.
What is on your list this week? What is going to make you smile, laugh, and feel thankful to be alive? It’s these little moments that make our holidays (and our lives) extraordinary.